Why Slowing Down Matters: A Holistic Approach to Stress, Burnout, and Women's Health

We live in a world that rarely encourages us to slow down. Between work, household tasks, education, caregiving, relationships, appointments, and the endless responsibilities of daily life, many women are constantly moving through tasks without ever taking a pause. This can begin to affect us, and our stress levels

A global survey showing that 35% of us likely experience chronic stress (Smith & Wesselbaum, 2025). Even the simplest moments of the day can start to feel rushed, such as drinking your morning coffee while answering emails or moving through conversations, while already thinking about what needs to be done next. We all do it, and it is understandable why. Life asks so much from us. However, when we move through life this way, we are leaving little room to really enjoy these small, calm moments that help us and our bodies feel supported. With time, and often without realizing it, this non-stop pace can begin to catch up with the body.

For many women, it may show up as:

• Fatigue

• Poor sleep

• Burnout

• Hormonal imbalances

• Muscle tension

• Depression

• Anxiety

• Indigestion

• Headaches

• Allergies

• Chronic stress

• Pain

  
  

Continuously pushing through overwhelm and exhaustion makes symptoms even more difficult to manage, both physically and emotionally. I know this feeling, and I know many of you are this position as well. Healing does not always require drastic treatments. Sometimes, adopting a simple holistic approach, such as individualized holistic herbalism, can serve as a foundation for whole-body healing.

The Cleveland Clinic explains that “Many women report that caregiving and family responsibilities, such as taking care of children, parents and household duties, increase stress and a lack of well-being” (Cleveland Clinic, 2025). Constant, long-term exposure to stress without allowing space for rest and recovery impacts the body negatively. Our sleep, digestion, emotional regulation, and energy levels are all compromised, and pain is accelerated.

The National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health explains that during stress, the body begins to release hormones that trigger the ‘fight or flight’ response. This response is activated by two systems: the sympathetic-adreno-medullary (SAM), which is the body’s immediate stress response, and the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA), responsible for long-term stress regulation. The SAM system’s fast response triggers the release of key stress hormones noradrenaline and adrenaline initially, and the HPA system releases cortisol in a slow response to long-term activation (Chu & Marwaha et al., 2024). As a reaction, heart rate, breathing, and blood pressure all increase while our muscles begin to tense and the body turns to high alert (NCCIH, 2022). This natural response is to protect the body from short periods of high stress, not prolonged stress. With time, the ongoing whirlwind has the power to push you to both emotional and physical exhaustion. Countless women frequently experience various chronic pain and pain conditions. A study by the National Study of Disability showed that out of the participants reporting chronic pain, 67% of these cases were women! (Pain, 2025) Some of the most common pain disorders include:

• Endometriosis

• Interstitial Cystitis

• PCOS

• IBS

• Vulvodynia

• Migraines

• Fibromyalgia

Many of these conditions coexist alongside everyday responsibilities, leading women to silently push through symptoms while still managing to care for themselves and others. While these conditions are not caused by stress alone, there is a strong connection between stress and pain perception. Many women notice their symptoms worsen when overwhelmed, as inflammation and muscle tightness within the body increase. Stress can also increase nervous system sensitivity, making the body more receptive to pain, causing symptoms to feel more intense than they would in a relaxed state (Belamkar, 2025).

Beginning to understand these connections also helps us to understand the importance of slowing down for wellness. Allowing your body to slow down lets you move into the parasympathetic nervous system response, or the “rest, digest, and recover state," as your body can focus on regulation rather than stress. Sleep quality, energy levels, and

hormones begin to improve, and heart rate can return to a resting state. Slowing down can also guide your body to better decision-making and emotional regulation, as your brain shifts to function in the prefrontal cortex (NCCIH, 2025).

When the nervous system is able to feel protected and calm, the way you and your body function reflects that. Slowing down doesn’t mean eliminating stressors or completely changing your habits, it means recognizing that you deserve moments of rest, even on your busiest days. It’s easy to put ourselves last when balancing everything around us, but your well-being matters! Prioritize yourself for a moment; you can’t be your best self without feeling your best. Focus on creating small moments throughout your day that allow the body to pause and begin to restore.

Wellness doesn’t need to be perfect, expensive, or complicated. Sometimes the most meaningful and effective approach comes from simply and intentionally slowing down and changing the way you respond to stress. Here are a few tools and methods that can easily be incorporated into already busy routines:

Herbal Support

Nervines are a category of herbs commonly used to guide relaxation through nervous system support and regulation. They are known to improve the body’s stress response while relieving muscle tension, improving mood, and so much more! Lemon balm, an easy-to-use and widely accessible herb, works to calm nerves gently without the heavily sedative effects, making it an effective herb for daytime use. Lemon balm is also known for its benefits in digestion and easing discomfort within the digestive system (Traditional Medicinals, 2024).

Another category of herbs that help is adaptogens, which are herbs that help the body cope with stress. They are commonly used for their ability to improve mood, hormones, energy levels, and immunity through interaction with the HPA axis. Rhodiola (though not for everyone) for example, is an adaptogen known for its ability to combat stress-related symptoms such as fatigue, general weakness, and mood (Ponassian & Wikman, 2010).

Nutritive herbs also provide deep nourishment through essential vitamins and minerals alongside other countless benefits. These herbs support the full body, proven time and time again to boost resilience, energy, and vitality. One of the most common nutritive herbs is nettle, highly anti-inflammatory, and rich in nutrients such as iron, magnesium, zinc, and more (Herbal Reality, 2026).

You can enjoy these herbs in any way that feels most supportive to you, whether as teas, tinctures, capsules, or other preparations. Keep in mind that herbal wellness is never one-size-fits-all. Factors such as genetics, lifestyle, environment, and overall health can influence how someone responds to an herb. What works well for one person may not have the same effect for another, and your needs may change over time. This is why it is important to pay attention to your body's responses and adjust your support accordingly. When navigating more complex health concerns or seeking a personalized approach, working with a qualified herbalist can provide guidance tailored to your unique constitution, goals, and evolving needs.

Gentle Movement

Simply moving can begin to significantly decrease stress levels while regulating and improving mood, deepening breathing, and relieving muscle tension. Gentle stretches, short walks, and other low-impact movements help to release built-up tension, let it go. To go along, a report from Power’s Health, based on the Gallup National Health and Well-Being Index, showed that 56% of inactive women reported higher stress, with the percentage dropping to 45% for women who engage in daily physical activity (Power’s Health, 2026).

Aerobic Exercise: Activities such as walking, running, and swimming help to improve cardiovascular health while releasing mood-boosting endorphins that help reduce stress levels.

Strength Training: Exercises such as squats, resistance band workouts, or free weight training help to release tension while supporting emotional balance, better sleep, and overall stress relief. Strength training doesn’t need to include heavy weights to be effective; even simple bodyweight exercises show benefits.

Flexibility Work: These exercises not only release physical tension, but also calms the nervous system. Static stretching involves holding a chosen muscle in one extended position for up to 60 seconds, while dynamic stretching moves muscles through their full range of motion in controlled movements, working to relieve tension and lower stress.

Lifestyle Activities: Simple daily activities can also support stress relief without requiring extra steps or equipment. Small routines such as house cleaning, mowing the lawn, or playing with pets all help to release stress without requiring extra steps, activities, or equipment (Dayton, 2025).

Nutrition

Balanced and nourishing meals support your body so deeply, yet they are often one of the first things forgotten (or neglected) when stressed out. When we begin to rely on convenient, unhealthy foods, skip meals, or overeat, we are hindering our body's ability to function properly. Try to avoid foods including refined sugars, industrial seed oils, alcohol, gluten, and dairy. These ingredients can work against the body to promote stress by raising cortisol levels and lowering energy and concentration levels, poorly affecting wellbeing overall (Khajuria & Yadav et al., 2025). Instead, focus on foods high in omega-3 fatty acids, fiber, and fermented foods such as salmon, active culture yogurts (non-dairy options), leafy greens, or flaxseeds. These support stress relief through gut support, inflammation reduction, and provide stable energy and regulation throughout the day (Naidoo, 2020).

Diaphragmatic Breathing

Diaphragmatic breathing, or deep breathing, is a simple and quick yet powerful tool to regulate your nervous system, allowing you to slow down and reset. Diaphragmatic breathing uses deep breathing techniques that shift your body into a state of calm. Cortisol levels, which are a key stress hormone, as well as blood pressure, begin to drop with each breath according to the National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health. Deep breathing also works to relieve muscle tension within the body, providing even deeper stress-relieving benefits. Even taking a few slow, intentional breaths between tasks can make a noticeable difference in how you feel.

Here are some techniques to explore:

4-7-8 Breathing: This calming technique involves inhaling for 4 seconds, holding for 7 seconds, and slowly exhaling for 8 seconds. Made popular by Dr. Andrew Weil, this method is proven to improve mental health, breathing capacity, and overall quality of life scores while shifting the body into the parasympathetic nervous system response (Priasmoro & Asri et al., 2025).

Box Breathing: This method consists of fours. Gently inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 4 seconds, exhale for another 4 seconds, and hold for the final 4 seconds. Repeat until you feel its calming effects. This technique guides the body to shift into the parasympathetic nervous system while releasing tension, slowing your heart rate, and reducing the amount of stress hormones being released into the body (American Lung Association, 2024).

In conclusion...

These moments of rest, regulation, and nourishment can benefit the body more than we often realize. Though simple, these practices give your body the space to begin to rest and reset, allowing yourself to finally take a moment, recover, and feel supported. In a world that is persistently pressuring us to keep going, slowing down can feel difficult or unproductive. We often push through the day surrounded by expectations and responsibilities - instead take the time to slow down and create small moments to pause, breathe, and reset. Wellness does not always need to come from doing more. We don’t need perfection or dramatic change; sometimes, you begin to thrive from finally allowing yourself to do less. This isn’t falling behind; this is self-care.

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Written by Alyssa Bohara. Alyssa is a first-generation senior at Eastern Connecticut State University studying Health Sciences with a concentration in Public Health. With both an academic interest and personal experience with women’s health and its disparities, she is passionate about supporting others meaningfully while focusing on the bigger picture and

underlying factors that contribute to their experiences. This perspective has led her to a growing interest in the field of herbalism and full-body approaches to care that are considerate of the individual as a whole rather than simply their symptoms. With a future goal of working in the Maternal and Infant Health field, she hopes to make a positive

impact on the wellbeing and health outcomes of women and children through advocacy, education, and supporting accessible initiatives that work to meet families where they are.

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This article is not intended to treat, diagnose or cure - it is for educational purposes only.